"we have each allowed life to get us by the "b*lls;" and not make our marriage a priority."
It sounds like she made the M a priority, but you weren't ready to listen. You said she told you that you work too much and that she felt like a single parent. It speaks volumes.
I understand that you worked long hours, etc. But work isn't what keeps a relationship going. Providing also isn't what fills a W's need. It's what a man does. It's the unspoken stuff that needs working on.
If you don't live together and don't see together, how do you know how often she's checking her phone? And besides it's really none of your business. She takes care of the kids, plays with them, feeds them, etc. Then she's fine.
Okay, so you're going to be starting the Sundays with family this week?
And I didn't see your answer if you read DR or not.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.