Yeah, I get that it is blame shifting, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around the whole situation. And I do plan on protecting myself in this matter. I have not heard back from my lawyer. However two years of law school have given me a good enough understanding of the basics to draft a statement to the court, so that is what I am in the process of doing.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012