"In fact this is exactly the kind of behavior that she claims I engaged in and broke up our marriage."
Blameshifting. Happens all the time. My W told me she cheated because she thought that it was inevitable that I was going to cheat on her so she did it first. WHAT?!!!!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.