Originally Posted By: Mrs D
Originally Posted By: Carnac
I appreciate your confidence in the fact that she's seeing it b/c she's so indifferent to me right now I often wonder if she's thinking of me at all.


As the WAW at one point, I dont see how she couldnt be. Because I have lived that side as well - I can tell you my thoughts were still of my H every night. Even though I was having an EA. Wow, that sounds really bad. I wish my H had backed off and not come off as needy as he had for awhile. And I think that helps me some with not being as pouncy as I want to be. It is a big turnoff. But at the same time, I know with his constant being there - I didnt lose complete focus on him and the EA didnt turn into anything but. That being said - thats why I want to be so pouncy. Does that make sense?

Mind reading here, but I think she sees it all. She just needs to figure herself out as well.


^^^ exactly.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce