Originally Posted By: Carnac
I appreciate your confidence in the fact that she's seeing it b/c she's so indifferent to me right now I often wonder if she's thinking of me at all.


As the WAW at one point, I dont see how she couldnt be. Because I have lived that side as well - I can tell you my thoughts were still of my H every night. Even though I was having an EA. Wow, that sounds really bad. I wish my H had backed off and not come off as needy as he had for awhile. And I think that helps me some with not being as pouncy as I want to be. It is a big turnoff. But at the same time, I know with his constant being there - I didnt lose complete focus on him and the EA didnt turn into anything but. That being said - thats why I want to be so pouncy. Does that make sense?

Mind reading here, but I think she sees it all. She just needs to figure herself out as well.


M:43/ H:39
T:12/ M:9
S8, D15
M affair(one night): 2/09
M EA: 2/12-7/12
D:6/7/12
H: GF since 7/24/12

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