If people are pressuring her and then tell you about it, then you can politely tell them that while you appreciate their concern, this is ultimately a problem between you and her.
So how do you manage to take care of the kids? Your kids are so young, there are some instances where you have to work together. How are your interactions then?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.