To Lovingly Detach

[Arsene]

I know what you're saying and I agree but, there is really nothing I can do about it. The last time i mentioned something about what W did when she was with D8 (the fact that D8 had met OM and that she picked D8 up from school with OM)blew up in my face and as far as I know, she could still be doing it. As 25 says, if W goes for a divorce, she can get custody very easily in this country and then what?

I have to play it safe. At least for now, I think that W is still too selfish to consider taking D8 on her own but for some reasons, I'm almost certain that if I made an issue of something like this, she might use this as a muscle flexing opportunity to put me back in my place and do what she wants anyway. She knows how important D8 is in my life and I would not pass it by her to use that against me if she felt pressure.

Besides, I have a hard time believing that she doesn't feel at least a bit of guilt over this. She's D8's mother for F#$%k's sake!!

I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. She wasn't driving, she was relying on others for transport. She was there as a guest singer for a band and she wasn't in charge of the schedule and of when she went on. Things can get pretty unorganised around here when it comes to schedules. Maybe, I'll drop it for now but if such an outing occurs again, I'll make sure this doesn't happen again by asking specifically what the event is and what the schedule is. But even this has potential to blow up in my face. Arrrrg!