Going Dark; Not Sure I Have The Strength

[pookie69]

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[NASCARDaddy]

Well I guess that you should never ask how much worse things can get, because you will find out. It turns out that my wife went ahead and filed the papers for the 90 day waiver and either forged my signature or had someone else forge my signature on the papers. Plus my financial aide was declined for school so I need to file an appeal to get the money to pay for school.

[chatterbug]

file an appeal right away and I would also talk to a lawyer asap about the forged documents.

No more talking to ex-nascar

[chatterbug]

P.S. that is the other cost for her of you standing up for yourself.

She attacks with a smile while the dagger thrusts.


Now you know this.


A tough lesson to be taught. Remember it when she is sweet again on you. As you know she is just maneuvering

[NASCARDaddy]

I already called my lawyer and I am waiting to hear back from him since he was in court. I am done with her and her crap. If she is willing to do this then there is nothing left of the woman that I fell in love with and married.

[NASCARDaddy]

Actually, she filled this before she filed the motion that led to last Friday's confrontation. I only found out about it today because I decided to go down and check the records to see what documents she had filed.

[DaddyLongShanks]

I already called my lawyer and I am waiting to hear back from him since he was in court. I am done with her and her crap. If she is willing to do this then there is nothing left of the woman that I fell in love with and married.

This is what some of them end up doing. I was pointing it out and MrBond slapped my hand with the ruler, because he was saying not all cases are like this.

Nascar, she is "winning" in her mind. The closer you can close this deal and get to standard visitations, divorce court orders the more peace you will feel. I know right now, you just don't know where she is going to HIT you from.... I know the feeling.

[Starsky309]

Tell her that it's forged, you KNOW it's forged, and you have IRON-CLAD PROOF that it's forged, but that you "promised not to reveal your source." If she presses you, say "Look, I told him I wouldn't reveal his -- the -- name, and I'm not going to."

Let her think it's a male -- paranoia can work in your favor. There is sometimes power in them not knowing what you know, and what you don't know . . . you know?

And just for fun, you can even throw in a "it's amazing how quickly people will talk when they're deposed, under threat of perjury. Sure you want to take that chance? You'll be hearing from us." (and hang up)

[NASCARDaddy]

I already told her that I knew it was forged because I was going over the court records. She denies that she forged it, but had nothing to say when I told her that she must have had someone else forge it for her. Then she had the inevitable emotional breakdown and told me that we would have to talk about it later because she can't deal with it right now, which is a bunch of nonsense.

Honestly I don't know what has happened to her. I just don't understand where this has come from. Certainly this is not the woman I fell in love with or married. The person that I knew, the kind, loving, honest, and spiritual person that I fell in love with, would never do anything like this. In fact this is exactly the kind of behavior that she claims I engaged in and broke up our marriage.

[chatterbug]

ahh but this is the woman you married.