Don't think of it as "throwing sand in your sandbox," but "throwing D2 into your sandbox."
I also don't think it's a good idea to send D2 to the in-laws. She needs her daddy right now.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim