can Turtles still stand?

[needgrace]

I do agree that he has a lot to miss, now... At the very least, remaining attractive, yet not available, could very well set him up to miss you... lots...

dear sweet zig,

you were amazing in mediation, it felt like you were so calm and clear and present...similar to what you mentioned on my thread, that you knew that all of that is inside you and that you could access it at any time. you could just TRUST and BE... no distance from yourself, no protection needed bc you trusted that you were able..

and i like what kd and you have said about setting boundaries and letting him miss you.. the vision of how you have handled the last few interactions in H's mind... perhaps letting him deal with that and w/ himself right now.. and the uproar he has created...on his own.

(and you stepping in if needed for S of course..)

i think busting may be on to something... and the castle is shaking and in an uproar while you sit with us on the blanket and toast to what we are seeing in ourselves and each other... true beauty and grace in action.

love you, sweet zig. so inspired by you, too. ((((((((( ))))))))))