Hey Starsky. I think that she was asking about why it is bad that WE bring up OP with our spouses... not about them having any contact with them.

I replied on her thread.

I am a bit curious as to what your opinion is though.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce