Thanks Carnac. I didn't really give her the ultimatum "get in or get out" as much as I said "there is no option forward with OM in it." I told her she could have as much time as she needed to work thru things, to figure out what she wanted, etc. There's a end date to that as well, but I don't know when it is yet.
What I do know is that I'm fine whether she leaves or not, I will continue learning about myself, improving myself, being a better dad and a better partner. I feel really good today, and honestly, W was in a pretty good mood this morning too. She even mentioned a vacation...good thing I don't worry about what's she's thinking, because I'd be confused as hell otherwise lol
