Good for you Breakdown I konw that was tough and im sure scary as heck but now you've said what you needed to and put the ball in her court as long as your ok with either outcome its exactly what had to be done. Someday everyone ends up at that juncture I think and they have to decide what they will and won't accept. My sitch is different in that I don't really know if there's an OM or not, and while im willing to stand an awful long time for my marriage I know that there will come a day (a long time from now) when i'll tell her to either get in or out one or the other. Right now there's no movement either way and that kind of suits me currently, but it can't be that way indefinetly.
Im still feel like someday we'll be able to work this out, but until that happens i'd much rather have no movement than away movement.
