MrsD: Sounds like a good interaction, hopefully you didnt put the part about wanting to take him to lunch today in your text b/c if you did, then yes thats pouncing. If you didnt, then the other was a little playful banter in my mind and there's no harm there as long as it doesn't cause him to pull back.
If that playful banter causes him to pull back then you have to cut it out as well.
