Denver - happy for you! Following your thread. I do have to say I am a bit envious you get so much traffic. It seems I have to beg to get someone to comment on my thread!! Oh well. I hope this isn't a threadjack-wondering if it was someone you or STarsky who said we should never mention the OP to our spouses because it can do "strange" things to them.?! Transport them back to their R and the feelings they had for them?!? IS that right? I have to say I have slipped up in that area. I will post more on my thread- "Now the work begins". I could use some feedback from others. Thank you.