hi Zig-

wow, you were so calm and in control. i am so impressed and in admiration.

i want to say something that i first thought when he asked you for the D in the first place.

i wouldn't be surprised if these recent actions (D talk and mediator) are being pushed by OW. it just smells like it to me. (and WHATEVER about you meeting her..seriously this has got to be her idea i am rolling my eyes so much right now)

my thoughts re: son. introduce when D is final. no sooner. protect son. this may be this is OW's idea as well, and the situation does not seem that stable...he just told his mom he didn't think it was going to work!

i love you zig. sorry if i sound harsh or preachy. am just a little effed off for you smile

picnic...now



continue doing what you need

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home