Agreed, don't think about any next steps just "be" for now and take what comes. W said she'll discuss it with you more next week -- please know that she may not and that needs to be okay. Don't torture yourself with anticipation. You said your piece and she heard you. For her to open that conversation is going to be painful for her and a WAW will generally avoid any painful situations.

She needs to see and believe that a future with you would be different than your shared past. If she went looking for those differences in you what would she find? Can you itemize that list?

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015