Glad you are approaching the day with a positive attitude! Me too! About the rings, I wouldn't worry about it. It's hard to know what stuff means without getting in their head. I complained about my W not wearing hers once a few years back. She said "I'm just as married, ring or not" and I said something like "to me, our rings symbolize our marriage, and it's important to me that you wear it." From that point on, we've kind of understood where each other is coming from on the rings, but unless you've had that talk, I would just not worry about it. I'm not even wearing mine most days now, just simply because I've gotten in better shape this year and it's a size too big.
Yeah, I've been worrying about a wedding-band-looking ring W has started wearing since I got back. She was not a ring wearer in the past and this one looks just like a wedding band but she wears it on her middle finger. I've been upset over that ring, imagining that it was OM's and that she probably puts it on the other finger when they go to a hotel (people need to be married in this country to get a room together) and just yesterday, a mate asked me how I knew it was OM's.
I don't.
It might just be something she found in a shop and liked. Who knows, it probably doesn't mean a thing.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
