Did I tell everyone I grabbed the green food coloring instead of the vanilla extract for pancakes yesterday?
We had alien looking chocolate chip pancakes yesterday morning for breakfast! But they were a hit and everyone wanted seconds.
Ok guys gotta confess. I got confirmation from SIL and it most DEFINATELY is not a bed of roses over there with XH and OW. SiL states she's know that XH is very much having regrets of his choices and he's pretty unhappy. OW complains about XH to SIL. Apparently XH moodiness is still with him and OW doesnt like it.Apparently Ow is psychotically jealous too.
At the same time from what I heard OW is really is a piece of work and she is NOT NICE to XH. Sounds as if she insults him every chance she gets.
XH b day was the 16th, he appeared down and depressed at first when the girls saw him, and then perked up after they were there. He loved his gift the girls gave him (which I picked out, and I think he possibly could figure it out based on what it was).
Ok Guys.... this is where Im feeling confused here. Karma obviously is coming full circle here. I have to confess it's self satisfying for a while, but after a while it's not.
I kinda feel sorry for him, cause she sounds really really mean. I can't imagine talking to anyone like the way she has to him.
Am I crazy to be concerned about someone that treated me so badly, that they're now getting it 10 fold?
I have to tell myself that this is his lesson, and XH has had so many oppurtinities and second chances from the Universe and God, and he chose not to listen. Maybe it's God's way of speaking a little louder to him.
Once again I just don't understand why we all just can't get along!
XH,
Is stuck on those strong affair feelings, the strong sex, the strong pull as he's messing with fire. It's probably mostly gone now, that she "has him", he's left with paings that she never intends to fill again. She's being mean to him to "keep him off of her".
If only he knew his solution was to admit his faults, bring his self home back to his supportive and loving wife. That the whole world will look a whole lot better, and you will give him a safe place to heal his mind and his heart.
Staying with the OW, she will tear him down into a deep bottomless pit, it's like she's building up a powerful demon off of him. He's likely grasping to her for "love", the old feelings and all, and she's kicking him in his teeth. If H only understood this is a typical pattern of a "mean cheater", and it's time for him to leave.
