Hey Racheal,

Ok, Im going to be honest here. I don't care how much GALing you get. That's not going to stop your husband's power and control issues he has.

For me, and this is my personal confession, that the more I acted as if everything was ok with his mood swings and him treating me badly, the more I was putting myself into denial of how bad things were with him.

How he treated you was disrespectful and very incosiderate.

However in the light of GALing I would suggest you get your own computer and not have ANYONE touch it.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.