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Originally Posted By: Valeska19

I loved my wife and honored my vows from the moment I said I do – to the moment I signed it over.

And I truly have NO regrets.

I thank God for giving me the strength to love her through all this, to push me to love as he does.



dear val, you have so much to be proud of... there are so many things you could have done instead, but you chose, in the toughest times, to HONOR your vows and to LOVE. that says so so much about who you are and you are right, you did not break, you stood tall despite it all... you are truly inspiring..

before i saw you as an angel for how you would watch my sitch and lift me up just when i needed it....now i am thinking you are more like lady liberty, a symbol of strength, leading the way to "the new world" with a torch in hand.

(((((((((((( )))))))))))))))))


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what she said^^^^...


Val I hope you contact Kaffe diem to reach me in the alt universe. You are too interesting and too insightful and too geographically close for me not to connect w/you.

Well done, Val, well done. Including the anger. You had it, you coped while in front of her, then FELT it afterwards and you processed it/

That's pretty damn cool.

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X = "ALASKA 2.0"
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willing to be a bridge as always. smile

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@ 25 - That would be great.

@KD - Hook a sista up. I have no idea how to meet up on the alt universe... but I'm ready for my initiation. cool


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Inspiring Val. Your interaction w/ your w seemed like a scene from a movie.

I've followed you for a long time and really respect how you handle things.

Best of luck to you!


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Originally Posted By: Valeska19
@KD - Hook a sista up. I have no idea how to meet up on the alt universe... but I'm ready for my initiation. cool


@Val... have you ever noticed that... some people use the same username on all their online profiles? Funny how easy it can be to track people...

jes' sayin'... smile

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Val your words are very inspiring. Both part 1 and 2 perfectly fit the title of your thread . . . Grace, Love, Compassion, & Faith - looks exactly like what you did. I don't know you but I am proud of how you handled this. Wishing you the best in everything going forward.

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@kd I'd be surprised if 25 s name was 25yearsmlc on the alt. smile


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maybe... i wasn't talking about 25... wink but... someone who... might know 25... in the alt...

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Penguins?


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Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.
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