Those are all positives and it really does show how much you're willing to prove you're accountable even though you're D'd.
Back off on the date requests. Just show him that you can be a great mom and draw him closer to you that way. It will take time.
Through all this, what does his current GF think about what's going on? I think you need to let him run through that relationship so he can make an honest decision. Have you met her?
Good call on the backing off on the date requests btw. i just feel that i could show him more that way...
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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