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Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps AlkalineThoughts #2273639 08/21/12 09:45 PM
Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida S Starsky309 Member
Starsky309 Member S Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida	Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts I love this advice! Now how to balance "Going Dark" with building attraction! It's Denver's "take advantage of your shots" stuff. QUALITY, not QUANTITY. But -- and this is a huuuuge distinction -- he ONLY did it during those periods where his wife wasn't in contact with OM, or at least when led him to believe that she wasn't. I think Denver would admit that if she were (in contact), and if Denver knew . . . and she KNEW that Denver knew . . . it would change the ENTIRE ATTRACTION DYNAMIC if he had continued to pursue/flirt/build attraction. M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07 At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)

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Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	07/31/12 06:42 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	chatterbug	08/02/12 03:42 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	chatterbug	08/02/12 03:43 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/07/12 01:34 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/10/12 04:03 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	roughenough	08/11/12 03:22 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Cadet	08/12/12 01:35 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/13/12 05:49 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	9600	08/13/12 06:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/13/12 07:08 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/14/12 05:34 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/15/12 03:47 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Carnac	08/15/12 03:56 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/15/12 05:42 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Carnac	08/15/12 06:23 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/15/12 08:21 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Carnac	08/15/12 09:23 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Arsene	08/16/12 02:29 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/16/12 02:47 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/16/12 03:21 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	roughenough	08/16/12 03:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/16/12 04:37 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Arsene	08/17/12 03:28 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/17/12 03:48 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Arsene	08/17/12 10:57 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/17/12 05:06 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/18/12 12:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Arsene	08/18/12 03:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/18/12 05:09 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/20/12 07:01 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	roughenough	08/20/12 08:55 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 03:21 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 01:57 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 02:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 03:01 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 03:18 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 03:23 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 03:24 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 03:41 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 03:51 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 04:02 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:11 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 04:19 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 04:51 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 05:02 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 05:08 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 05:11 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Mrs D	08/21/12 04:51 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:55 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 05:05 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Mrs D	08/21/12 05:14 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 05:37 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 06:13 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 06:14 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 06:24 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/21/12 06:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 07:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/21/12 07:40 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/21/12 07:58 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 08:20 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 08:26 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 08:36 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 08:48 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/21/12 08:55 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 08:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 09:04 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 08:05 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/21/12 09:08 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 09:14 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 09:40 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 09:45 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/22/12 04:37 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/22/12 05:34 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/22/12 04:50 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	DaddyLongShanks	08/22/12 04:53 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:13 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 09:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 09:43 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:09 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/22/12 05:32 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/22/12 06:04 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/22/12 06:12 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/22/12 09:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/22/12 09:27 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/22/12 10:10 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 01:18 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	roughenough	08/23/12 02:03 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 02:22 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 03:40 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	DaddyLongShanks	08/23/12 06:06 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 08:03 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/23/12 08:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/23/12 08:24 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/23/12 08:27 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 09:30 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 09:53 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 10:00 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 09:24 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/23/12 09:31 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 09:56 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 09:53 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 10:11 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/23/12 11:14 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	suppo	08/24/12 12:21 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	suppo	08/24/12 12:23 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 02:47 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 01:43 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/24/12 02:25 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 02:48 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/24/12 08:12 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	suppo	08/24/12 10:01 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	roughenough	08/24/12 11:06 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	labug	08/24/12 11:09 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	suppo	08/24/12 11:39 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	labug	08/25/12 12:35 AM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	suppo	08/25/12 02:05 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	labug	08/25/12 02:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/26/12 01:37 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/24/12 02:57 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 04:30 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/24/12 05:00 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 06:54 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/24/12 06:56 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/24/12 07:03 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Denver_2010	08/23/12 08:47 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/23/12 09:37 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 04:13 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 03:59 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 02:56 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	labug	08/16/12 04:33 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/16/12 04:38 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/16/12 09:29 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/02/12 08:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 02:22 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	AlkalineThoughts	08/21/12 02:36 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Starsky309	08/21/12 02:57 PM
Re: Lost and need some guidance on my next steps	Arsene	08/21/12 03:37 PM

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