These are good examples. ^^^ I think at this stage, people should stop focusing on trying to build LOVE, and instead focus on trying to build ATTRACTION.
There's a difference.
It's like when you're first dating: before you can get a girl to love you, you first have to get her to be ATTRACTED to you.
BUILD ATTRACTION.
Starsky
I love this advice! Now how to balance "Going Dark" with building attraction!