IMHO I don't suggest the 5LL or any other types of pursuing yet. She said she needed time to see if your changes were permanent. Just go and have fun.
Make the day the best for your kids and give them a time to remember. Afterwards, go dark. Don't contact your W and just let it go. You have to let her miss you. YOu haven't given her time to be able to do that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
