Right. After reading loads of advice given to choc! - I'm back in the grove.

Gal - getting one (actually already have one as far as mates & family are concerned). Apart from the odd on-line wobble I promise I'm fine guys.

Attention giving guy - got that nailed. Ask anyone I relate to (except W and friend)

Don't persue in any way - this is the hard one I'm avoiding by the skin of my teeth (and with help from people who keep hitting me!)

Countdown to "friend" going back to work leaving W to talk to herself about this sitch (damn that's going to be a long talk)

My W is an alient at the moment - no way am I ever going to be able to figure what's going on in her head.

I'll cheerfully leave the rest of the world to deal with her until she decides (yes she) that we need to talk. What am I going to do otherwise? Put her in a full nelson?

But I am going to fight for the M!

Night night all