Thanks, Barb and kml (Wow! you've been here longer than I have!)
The asnwer is , yes, he could live with me, but I would need to send him to a local private school, because the public schools where I live (and grew up!) are not nearly as good as where he is going to go.
I wouldn't want to put him in the middle of choosing, and he, like my middle daughter, is petrified on many levels to "cross the beast", so he would never really stand up to her.
Her latest email ended "Can't wait for court!" Sounds like a very happy woman who has found everything that she sought through divorce beginning 6 years ago doesn't it?
If I never spoke to her again, it would be great, but she has a weird need to contact me about every stupid thing, and always scold me, like the old days. Every time I see this clip from "American Beauty", Kevin Spacey reminds me of....well me. I love the last line of the clip! Check it out! LMAO!