Starsky - I've done nothing but show the hard arse no-nonsense front end for at least a month. To my W, to my adopted family and to my friends (except two who are helping me physically as much as you guys are in your writing).
I defy anyone including you lot to fob this off. You're not here and you don't see. So please don't try. K?
You can certainly comment on what you do see and infer from my ramblings.
Vera I think your choice of words need to be toned down a little - a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition (as in an addiction to alcohol or heroin)
Oh really. And I need to explore this? When I said "hurting me more" it was in respect of NOT BEING ABLE TO DO ANYTHING because of the situation. Nothing more and nothing less. Pardon the shouting.