Starsky - I see so many parallels with my marriage (now divorced) regarding this above. I was in an EA with my personal trainer - well, more like I was in it - he thought of me only as a friend. I wanted my husband to fight for me more than he was, even though he was trying. But he was also tolerating it at the same time. What do you recommend to me now that the divorce is final - I want to reconcile, but he is now in a 4 week whatever he is in. I think its rebound. Actually hoping it is... Sorry for jumping your thread Aka!
MrsD, it's interesting you should say that, because my own wife's affair was with a trainer (and she is/was a personal trainer as well). I will check out your thread, as I don't want to hijack Alkaline's, but if your divorce is already final, then you probably just need to let him go.
