If you know, and she KNOWS that you know, then I believe that is where her "Why aren't you fighting for me?" comment is coming from.
She is losing respect for you, because you are tolerating her affair, in my opinion. And since women tie their feelings of LOVE very closely with their feelings of RESPECT for a man, I believe she is rapidly losing love for you as well.
Combine all that with the physiological fact that she is addicted to her OM (just google "PEA brain love lust addiction" and do some basic research on the endorphines that wash over someone's brain when they are in an affair), and you're in quite the pickle.
Starsky
Starsky - I see so many parallels with my marriage (now divorced) regarding this above. I was in an EA with my personal trainer - well, more like I was in it - he thought of me only as a friend. I wanted my husband to fight for me more than he was, even though he was trying. But he was also tolerating it at the same time. What do you recommend to me now that the divorce is final - I want to reconcile, but he is now in a 4 week whatever he is in. I think its rebound. Actually hoping it is... Sorry for jumping your thread Aka!
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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