I honestly can't see though what possible plus points are to be gained by denying my W a pack of pads.
It isn't about denying her pads, which I may add she is quite capable of purchasing herself. You are showing her that this is how it is going to be if she continues on the road she is walking. It will no longer be your responsibility to "take care" of her. She needs to grow up and act like an adult, not a three year old who is having a temper tantrum.
She needs help with her phone, there you are fixing it. She wants food, there you are wearing an apron. She needs some cash, there you are with your wallet open. She needs pads, there you are ready to run to the store.
She needs, she needs, she needs, and you come running. Why in the world would she change?
Nothing is going to change until you stop catering to her every move.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
