Ah Soddit again. This mood the W is in really needs to work itself out. I can be here for her. Others that she relates to are involved in one way or another. Only one person is supporting the W in this path that she's on at the moment.
Everyone else isn't supporting her in any way.
So why must I? It really is out of my hands!!!!
Some have reassured me that they are trying to help in a positive way. I've not asked them to!!!!!!!
They're all aware that I love my W. and will do anything for her - to my detriment I now realise.
So …… Let go. That's exactly what I need to do. Again. And consistently. I'm not gong to spend any more time being out of the way. If she comes home, I'll be here (unless I've made arrangements to be elsewhere). It's not going to be my problem if she retreats to "her" bedroom.
I honestly can't see though what possible plus points are to be gained by denying my W a pack of pads. I can certainly see the "bugger isn't buying me something" bit. Please explain someone. Then I can happily drop it once and for all.
Thanks in anxious anticipation.
Mac
Starsky - found one of your threads in your early days. I busy ploughing through it now.
