P.S.

Now is not the time for "fuzzy references." Now is the time to LEAD, and to fight like hell for your marriage. I believe your wife has been waiting for you to do that, at some deep level. Now, will she scream like a witch with holy water poured on her in the SHORT term? Probably, yeah. But in the long term, you may just save your marriage.

Please read Denver2010's sitch, for a great case study in how to balance the dance.


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)