My ex still spews at anyone and everyone. It started right before he left. He was one unhappy camper. All I can say is - once they're out - you CAN dodge the bullets. you don't HAVE to answer the phone or respond to a crazy text. If it's really bad - change your email.
I choose when to respond or to react to my ex. Took me a LONG time to get that. Recently he started freaking out on the hospital staff while visiting our son. Umm - in my opinion they were doing an awesome job. He does NOTHING for our son. And he told them he was also in charge. Umm - in charge of what? He's not even in charge of himself. LOL
Some of them are nuttier than others but that's the one thing the divorce can give you - separation - which is NOT always a bad thing.
