Glad you are approaching the day with a positive attitude! Me too!
About the rings, I wouldn't worry about it. It's hard to know what stuff means without getting in their head. I complained about my W not wearing hers once a few years back. She said "I'm just as married, ring or not" and I said something like "to me, our rings symbolize our marriage, and it's important to me that you wear it." From that point on, we've kind of understood where each other is coming from on the rings, but unless you've had that talk, I would just not worry about it. I'm not even wearing mine most days now, just simply because I've gotten in better shape this year and it's a size too big.
