Originally Posted By: Starsky309


***I believe it's possible to do both.


The best of both worlds?! Now I'm certainly intrigued. How do you remain a friend and be someone they'd be a fool to leave but have 0 contact? smile

Originally Posted By: Starsky309

***I personally could never be someone's backup plan. Maybe that's just me, but let me ask you this: How confident are you that your wife knows that you know (that she's having an affair)?


Well as I discovered the picture in February and confronted her about that, I'm sure she knows that I know about an EA. And I've made fuzzy (very fuzzy) references to her doing "whatever the hell she's doing with some other guy" and, during our last "fight" (the one after she asked why I didn't fight for her) I went off on a tangent about how she's "hanging out" with an ex, so how am I supposed to fight for that...

So I'd say I have about 80% confidence that she knows I know... smile