Thanks for all of the responses, old friends and new ones alike. Gypsy: glad you summoned the courage to execute (bad choice of words?) the court option. I like it. Take no prisoners. Your X sounds like a real jerk.
It’s beginning to heat up…...just as I expected it would. I pay XW 3000 a month. Yes, it breaks down to $100 per day.
She and S14 are scheduled to move in with “grandpabossboyfriend” next week, and must have been served with the court notice. She sent me an email telling me she was sending me a bill for D20’s college books, because I have “never paid for them”. Just sent 4K to the college two days ago.
I reminded her that she still owes me about $1800 from my older daughter’s college days when the Veteran’s Administration double-paid my daughter’s college, then of course, recollected, which I ended up paying.
She came back and said: “You’re still bringing that up? I can’t wait to go to court and collect the thousands that you owe me”
Mind you, I am never a day late with the alimony payment…not one single day. Thousands of dollars? She is such a control freak; she has probably kept a ledger of every expense over the last three years, where she thinks I owe her money.
A simple court case will now drag out because of her vicious need to never be wrong and control EVERY situation.
Meanwhile, she’s taken her eye off of the ball in terms of why she’s being taken back to court: she’s moving in with her paramour and moving my son an additional 16 miles away from me. She recently had him diagnosed with “ADD”, and I believe is going to try an play the “he needs to stay at one house (hers of course) Monday through Friday for “consistency”, so she doesn’t have to drive him to meet me.
Anyone have experience in the courts with this type of stuff? She’s throwing any stuff against the wall in order to muddy the waters so she can be to quote Charlie Sheen “WINNING!”
