Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts
Starsky,

I'll try to answer all three questions at once!

I'm about 99.9% sure she's having a PA. . . .

EA/PA to me are practically the same thing... both are devastating to trust, our R, . . .

I've been operating knowing she's having an A... Trying to balance the advice of my IC and DB/DR...



And your response to this belief has been to pursue her?

Have you ever told her -- by word or more importantly by your actions -- that you are unwilling to live in an open marriage? Or, I like how Denver puts it, "I will not be a part of your life so long as OM is a part of it" ??


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)