EA/PA to me are practically the same thing... both are devastating to trust, our R, . . .
I've been operating knowing she's having an A... Trying to balance the advice of my IC and DB/DR...
And your response to this belief has been to pursue her?
Have you ever told her -- by word or more importantly by your actions -- that you are unwilling to live in an open marriage? Or, I like how Denver puts it, "I will not be a part of your life so long as OM is a part of it" ??