Divorced.. #2

[Mrs D]

Carnac:
Good points and you are truly correct. Thank you again for your insight.

Sunday when I was at his place, and the whole conversation turned to us - I did alot of validating - but he did alot more listening. He would ask me a question, and then I would either validate or answer honestly. I think Sundays conversation still went really well even though he said that he couldnt let himself try to trust me. I understand that, and that is just more walls that I need to break down. I think its possible over time, and with me healing and finding myself - there could still be a chance. And I read somewhere that it usually doenst look to turn - like if it took 3 years to ruin the marriage, it could take up to 3 months and longer? Or did I misread that?

Anyway. I do have a GF that is completely my soundboard. And its funny she was his when the tables were turned..