It will probably be a longer process for him and while you might (emphasis on "might") be able to influence him some, it is ultimately his choice and his timing. That's one of the hard parts of this. You can't set the framework or the timeline. That's why its important to keep your focus on strengthening yourself. You can by all means, be sympathetic and compassionate towards his issues, but detaching is important to not allow yourself to get caught up in his emotional ride.

The txt does look like the squirrel is still peaking around with curiosity....


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms