Alk,

Let me ask you a simple but straightforward question (or set of related ones):

1. Would it make a difference to you (in terms of what you would want to do -- i.e., "is it a dealbreaker") if your wife were having an affair?

2. In what way(s), if any, would you change your approach if she were?

3. To your way of thinking, what is the difference between an EA and a PA?


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)