Divorced.. #2

[Mrs D]

This morning I found out that a mutual friend of ours brother commited suicide over the weekend. I did reach out to my H to let him know, in case he hadnt heard. Broke NC again.. He in fact had heard, and went into what happened up to the point of the act. Sad, the guy was only 27. The converation went to FB because he had asked how I had found out. Of course, I wasnt going to lie - so I told him that I reactivated FB to check my daughters page, and saw that our mutual friend had posted something about it all. Bringing up my daughter brought a whole new conversation about her going to school at her Dads house, etc. All in all, it was a very good conversation - lasted 5 minutes. I didnt press about anything. The conversation stuck to those two topics then it was done.

Maybe I need to be his friend again? Or continue with the NC make him miss me thing? I am working on me for me. But I still question if me doing NC is what I should be doing? Wont he get closer to her if Im not in the picture? That is the question of the day.

Thanks - and Happy Tuesday! I am going to make it a good one because I CAN!