^^^

Sorry, but when you've got such a great vet like Starsky giving you advice over and over again and you keep ignoring it... it's frustrating to everyone.

Care package wasn't a good idea at all...

Trust me, I TOTALLY understand the desire to do such things, but you've got to really sit back and think about the signals you're giving here...

Mac... Why is it that YOU'RE the one "giving in just a bit, with compassion"? I think the honest answer to that question may help you get a little more clarity to your situation.

And Starsky, if you're getting frustrated with this sitch, I'd love your input on mine smile