I've decided to make a care package for the W - NOT because of the threats - just 'cos I want to. She can have a pack of cigs and pads with a letter telling her that it's not because of the aforementioned threats. They just don't work . . .
Apparently, they do.
I'm beginning to think we're wasting our time here. I'm certainly wasting mine. What do you suppose your wife is going to listen to, your words in your note, or your actions? She knows she can bully you, and you'll jump thru her hoops.