hrm, If you get an anniversary card, get one that isn't mushy.
The cleaning is another trait of the mlcer. It helps them "control" their environment and they think that decluttering is a way of making change and moving on. They crave change and think that by changing things around, they will feel better. Unfortunately, the decluttering needs to take place in the brain (internal).
I would make sure he's not getting rid of things that you can use later on.
As for the memory...the Mother Ship has taken their memory chips. It's funny how they can remember things that took place 5, 10, 20 years ago, but can't remember much of what took place yesterday.
You've been a lucky lady because he's not gone off the rails like many have. My xh was one of the "true" pod people and I was very happy when he left the home. He was just a very angry and unpredictable person from the start.
Hrm, your humor is helping you each and every day. I admire you for the way that you've been handling your situation. As for the toothbrush...it may be moving again very soon. LOL!
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.