I need to go back and read your first thread. I can't remember what his complaints were.
It's hard for me to remember them at this point, too. Generally - I think - he felt like he missed out on "something" bc we started dating when he was 20, and he wants to go find happiness because he thinks he could never find it in the M - it's too much work, even though I'd worked really hard already to fix some complaints of his, and he'd agreed things had gotten better. Also our life was "comfortable" but he felt like something was missing.