ces - i hope you are feeling good at this wonderful little progress that has happened in yours and your w's life.

I have been following along (and yes, guilty of not replying to your last post to me, and yes my arms were sore from 2 x4'ing so i gave it a rest ;)) and what i have felt reading what you have been writing is that you have worked well at letting go of a lot of resistant thoughts about your wife and the progress that was/ wasn't being made

i think that today's results have a lot to do with the work you have done - and i hope you see that too

i'm so glad for you dear friend - and i hope that you feel a bit encouraged.

and how big was that for you - an acknowledgement (if not from your wife, the next best thing,, your mc) that there are your hurts that exist also? i hope that you can look to that for some comfort as you go through this process until it is your turn?

trust that it WILL come, but don't expect any specific when.

(((((( )))))
zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"