KG,
Thanks for posting on my thread. It's very good to see you back and you have been missed.

You've been getting a ton of good advice from 25 and many others.

My only .02 is take the time you need.

After 18 months, your H finally got up the nerve to file.

Just because he has decided to jump, doesn't mean you have to.

Now I'm not saying you get to avoid the situation, but I DO believe in the gift of time.

There are times when you go with your gut and decide something. You trust in who you are as a person.. that you made the right decision.

Divorces are not that. The decisions are clouded by your emotions and you just have to work through them to get to make a decision.

So if you aren't ready.. you're not ready.. easy as that.

If you're not sure which way to go... just rest in the unknown. Work through your BS and I promise the answers will come.

And if that is not in 24 hrs.. okay.. 48.. no problem.

Hell.. if it's a month.. so be it!

You have grown too much to NOT move forward.

YOU get the set the pace now. It's YOUR future and the future of YOUR children that matter now.

YOU hold all the cards now.

((( )))

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.