That's how I read it too, kat. "Comfortable, clearly you're not".
I don't know what else we can say that will help Mish make the changes she needs to make. THis is just no way to live.
Mish - you had so much determination to have the talk when you got home - but postponing it has only made you lose resolve. Don't hold out for the "perfect" letter or the "perfect" time - there won't be any "right" time. It will always be that one of you is too tired, or it's your birthday or Christmas is coming etc. The only RIGHT and PERFECT time is NOW
