Perhaps I am reading this wrong but Barb, I don't think they are even at comfortable. It is something she is wanting to get to. Why on earth settle? Why stay with someone who puts their needs above yours? Two broken people do not make one whole person.
Please believe me Mish, you deserve soooo much more.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory